Category: Change

What would my best self do?

By Lissy Abrahams
January 1, 2023
Awareness, Change

We all know that New Year’s resolutions come and go as if they were written in the wind. It’s not that we don’t take them seriously when we create them. It’s just that changing our habits can be hard, despite our best intentions to follow through. For the last few…

You’re In Denial!

By techservices
April 21, 2022
Avoidance, Awareness, Change, Connection, Conversation, Defence Mechanism, Denial, Ego, Emotional Awareness, Emotions, Hurt, Relationships

Jerry found a series of sexually suggestive text messages on his wife’s phone from her colleague Bruno. She’d mentioned their friendship to Jerry and how they were both the most creative graphic designers in the advertising agency. They often had lunch together. Jerry was fine about their friendship. More recently,…

Our History Impacts Our View of Our Relationship

By techservices
April 12, 2022
Change, Conversation, Couple Mindedness, Ego, Expectations, Experiences, Family, Hard Conversations, Historical Lens, History, Listening, Love, Relationships, Understanding, Upbringing

Nicolai and Maja have been together for 8 years. They were on a date, where they had just finished a walk together on their favourite beach and were now heading to their local juice bar. As they sat down Nicolai raised the topic of which school their daughter should go…

Nothing Grows Without Watering – and Certainly Not You or Your Relationship

By techservices
April 5, 2022
Change, Commitment, Communication, Development, Emotional Regulation, Growth, Love, Relationships, Self Love, Stress, Time

A couple relationship is created by the two unique individuals who are drawn together for various reasons. Whatever the reasons, both individuals make an effort to be impressive, attentive, interesting, caring and thoughtful. I know this well. Prior to having children, I remember spending at least an hour to get…

Category: Change

What would my best self do?

You’re In Denial!

Our History Impacts Our View of Our Relationship

Nothing Grows Without Watering – and Certainly Not You or Your Relationship

Co-parenting successfully following a separation

New Year’s Separation or New Year’s Resolutions

What would my best self do?

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