Communication – Lissy Abrahams

Nothing Grows Without Watering – and Certainly Not You or Your Relationship

By techservices
April 5, 2022
Change, Commitment, Communication, Development, Emotional Regulation, Growth, Love, Relationships, Self Love, Stress, Time

A couple relationship is created by the two unique individuals who are drawn together for various reasons. Whatever the reasons, both individuals make an effort to be impressive, attentive, interesting, caring and thoughtful. I know this well. Prior to having children, I remember spending at least an hour to get…

Where Do Our Expectations And Beliefs About Relationships Come From?

By techservices
February 4, 2022
Beliefs, Communication, Conflict, Couple Mindedness, Ego, Expectations, Relationships

Do you ever wonder why you view yourself, your partner, your interactions, or your relationship the way you do? Why do other people have different viewpoints of relationships from ours? Most importantly, why is our partner so different from us? This is the relationship that we feel the differences so…

So Much Judgement – But Why?

By techservices
February 1, 2022
Communication, Conflict, Ego, Judgement, Relationships

We are such a complex species us humans. We have evolved these incredible mammalian brains that can categorise, analyse, and differentiate between objects, situations and abstract ideas. We create incredible tools, machines that fly, and artificial intelligence to be applied in every realm of life. We need to admire our…

New Year’s Separation or New Year’s Resolutions

By techservices
January 10, 2022
Communication, Conflict Resolution, Divorce, New Years, Separation

Whilst many of us welcomed 2022 with excitement and thoughts of New Year’s resolutions or goals we wish to achieve, there are also many of us struggling with the state of our couple relationship and close to ending it. New Year’s Separation This is no surprise for family lawyers who…

The Distressing Impact of Lockdown on Couple Relationships

By admin
July 14, 2021
Communication, Conflict, Conflict Resolution, Ego, Relationships

As a therapist, I am seeing first-hand the distressing impact of lockdown on couple relationships. Many were greatly impacted by the first 2-week stint, however, the recent extension of restrictions and the increasing infection cases has created greater anxiety and even depression. This is all made worse as there is…

How Our Closed Border Policies Impact Our Mental Health & Our Couple Relationships

By admin
July 13, 2021
Communication, Conflict, Conflict Resolution, Ego, Relationships

When the coronavirus pandemic began and quickly spread across regions of the world, our country’s leaders determined it best to firmly close our Australian borders to prevent the escalation of the virus and to keep us safe. This firm border policy has earned us the nickname “Fortress Australia”. The difficulty…

How To Get The Most Out Of Your Online Course for Decreasing Conflict and Improving Communication

By admin
June 28, 2021
Communication, Conflict, Conflict Resolution, Ego, Relationships

For many decades people have been looking for the perfect book to help solve their couple conflict or they seek regular help from a couple’s therapist in a consulting room, to stop their fights and to improve their ability to communicate as a couple. The problem here is that books…

How to Build a Relationship Based on Trust

By admin
May 24, 2021
Communication, Ego, Relationships

Trust is essential in couple relationships as much of our lives together rely on trusting our partner emotionally, physically, financially and practically. Broken trust can feel like a betrayal and can take time to heal. The difficulty for couples is that there is no universal definition of what constitutes a…

The Ego and How It Can Hurt or Even Destroy Relationships

We all have heard the word ego and many of us use it in conversation but what is the ego and how can it hurt or even destroy our relationships? What is the ego? Well simply speaking the ego is a part of the mind that is concerned with “me”,…

What is Couple Mindedness and Why is it Important for a Healthy Couple Relationship?

By admin
April 26, 2021
Communication, Couple Mindedness, Daniel Siegel, Mindsight, Relationships

We all want our couple relationship to be healthy and happy. The problem is we don’t always know or understand why it isn’t, which means we also don’t know how to improve our relationship. There is something partners need that is often not well enough developed to solve this problem…

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Nothing Grows Without Watering – and Certainly Not You or Your Relationship

Where Do Our Expectations And Beliefs About Relationships Come From?

So Much Judgement – But Why?

New Year’s Separation or New Year’s Resolutions

The Distressing Impact of Lockdown on Couple Relationships

How Our Closed Border Policies Impact Our Mental Health & Our Couple Relationships

How To Get The Most Out Of Your Online Course for Decreasing Conflict and Improving Communication

How to Build a Relationship Based on Trust

The Ego and How It Can Hurt or Even Destroy Relationships

What is Couple Mindedness and Why is it Important for a Healthy Couple Relationship?

Unshakeable confidence – yeah right!

Fear in Relationships

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