Category: Expectations

Relational Templates – Blind Spots That Become Landmines

By techservices
September 14, 2022
Expectations, Partners, Past, Relational Template, Relationships

Recently I shared with you how our triggers are a massive blind spot that can cause distress and chaos in our lives. And as they are unconscious, for most of us we have absolutely no idea what triggers us and why. It is the why that leads me to share…

Our History Impacts Our View of Our Relationship

By techservices
April 12, 2022
Change, Conversation, Couple Mindedness, Ego, Expectations, Experiences, Family, Hard Conversations, Historical Lens, History, Listening, Love, Relationships, Understanding, Upbringing

Nicolai and Maja have been together for 8 years. They were on a date, where they had just finished a walk together on their favourite beach and were now heading to their local juice bar. As they sat down Nicolai raised the topic of which school their daughter should go…

Where Do Our Expectations And Beliefs About Relationships Come From?

By techservices
February 4, 2022
Beliefs, Communication, Conflict, Couple Mindedness, Ego, Expectations, Relationships

Do you ever wonder why you view yourself, your partner, your interactions, or your relationship the way you do? Why do other people have different viewpoints of relationships from ours? Most importantly, why is our partner so different from us? This is the relationship that we feel the differences so…

Category: Expectations

Relational Templates – Blind Spots That Become Landmines

Our History Impacts Our View of Our Relationship

Where Do Our Expectations And Beliefs About Relationships Come From?

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