Category: Love

Why Did We Choose Our Partner?

By techservices
May 4, 2022
Commitment, Contracts, Couples, Failed Marriage, Family, History, Lonely, Love, Partners, Relationships, Significant Other, Soul Mate, Therapy

I was walking my dogs with my new friend Jake the other day. He was telling me about his relationship with his ex-wife and how different they were and why their relationship didn’t work out. Jake had his list of reasons for why she wasn’t right for him. These were…

Our History Impacts Our View of Our Relationship

By techservices
April 12, 2022
Change, Conversation, Couple Mindedness, Ego, Expectations, Experiences, Family, Hard Conversations, Historical Lens, History, Listening, Love, Relationships, Understanding, Upbringing

Nicolai and Maja have been together for 8 years. They were on a date, where they had just finished a walk together on their favourite beach and were now heading to their local juice bar. As they sat down Nicolai raised the topic of which school their daughter should go…

Nothing Grows Without Watering – and Certainly Not You or Your Relationship

By techservices
April 5, 2022
Change, Commitment, Communication, Development, Emotional Regulation, Growth, Love, Relationships, Self Love, Stress, Time

A couple relationship is created by the two unique individuals who are drawn together for various reasons. Whatever the reasons, both individuals make an effort to be impressive, attentive, interesting, caring and thoughtful. I know this well. Prior to having children, I remember spending at least an hour to get…

Category: Love

Why Did We Choose Our Partner?

Our History Impacts Our View of Our Relationship

Nothing Grows Without Watering – and Certainly Not You or Your Relationship

Relational Templates – Blind Spots That Become Landmines

We Need To Talk About “Otherness”

Triggers – Blind Spots That Become Landmines

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