One of the greatest fears expressed by most separating parents, is whether their children will be damaged by the process. Typically, separation is a disorientating experience for all the members of the family. There are literally hundreds of practical and emotional decisions that need to be made, as well as…
Fear can exist in all relationships. But what is the fear in relationships about? As you’ll see in the examples below, when we feel frightened, we usually take action or retreat. Let’s look at these examples: Jeremy’s heart races as he walks into the office. His boss, Frederic, snapped words…
Well, it’s nearly that totally creepy time of the year where we are legally allowed to walk about freely, goo all over faces, acting like lunatics, knocking on random doors to exchange a moments “spookiness” for a piece of lame candy. We never used to have Halloween in Australia. We…
The ending of our committed couple relationship typically starts the gruelling and exhausting separation experience. Even when we separate well and communicate respectfully without too much acrimony, it still takes a lot out of us as we dismantle nearly every aspect of our former lives together to create two separate…
I am yet to meet anyone who wants to go through a separation or divorce process. This is not to say I haven’t met many people who can no longer stay in their relationship or have been left by their partner. Either way, no one wants to go through a…